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As we
approach a season of gift giving we face a number
of challenges. What do you give to a senior who is
trying to "downsize" or who already has what he or
she needs? How do we approach seeking out a
caregiver, which is often a gift to both the
person needing care and to their family? How
do seniors with limited time and money participate
in this time of giving? And how do we
practice giving thanks for the gifts already in
our lives? In this issue of Engage we
offer creative ideas for giving to seniors, advice
on choosing a caregiver for your situation and
family, and creative ways for seniors to give of
themselves. There are so many ways to share our
lives. And the greatest surprise is that we often
receive back more than we offer. We hope
these stories will encourage you during the
joy and the challenges of the
holidays.
We hope
you will share Engage with your
family and friends.
Sincerely,
Institute
on Aging
Helping
Bay Area Seniors Live Independently
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Creative, Healthy Holiday
Gifts for Seniors
Excerpted
from USA Today
"Finding the perfect holiday
present rarely is easy, especially when it's for
an elderly relative or friend who seems to have
acquired almost everything imaginable. Perhaps the
best way to indicate to older adults how much you
care would be a gift that will help them stay
healthy, suggest experts at University of
Wisconsin Hospital and
Clinics.
"Choosing healthful
gifts shows you are interested in someone's
well-being," indicates Barb King, a geriatric
nurse practitioner. They also can show a lot of
creativity on the part of the giver.
One of the most popular healthful
gifts is a membership in a fitness class. If
an older adult agrees to join an exercise program,
make sure he or she first receives a physician's
evaluation. In addition to testing for over-all
health, the doctor may uncover a condition that
could affect an exercise regimen, such as high
blood pressure. Also, be sure to look
for exercise facilities staffed by
professionals trained in the special needs of
older adults.
Other practical gift
ideas for older adults include:
For the
home: Consider an insulation check, which
might include installing storm windows,
weatherstripping the windows, and buying draft
stoppers for the door.
In the
kitchen. Because heavy rain can keep
older adults inside for several days, consider a
"rainy day basket" filled with items such as
soups, tea, cereals, and dried
fruits.
Clothing. Because
many older adults have circulatory problems,
slippers and socks may be welcome. Or look for a
coat made of water-repellant material with
insulation that helps keep warm air near the
body.
Budget-stretchers.
Consider paying for an older adult's
prescriptions. Pre-purchase cab fares or bus
service, or take an older adult out once a
week...." Read
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How to Select
a Caregiver
 In the next two decades, with
baby boomers aging and older adults living longer,
more caregiving help than ever will be needed if
people are to remain at home, where 90% of us
would prefer to be. Although families and friends
do what they can, it often becomes necessary to
hire someone to help with personal care, meal
preparation, transportation and other daily needs
Probably the most important factor in
selecting a caregiver is keeping the client
involved in the process. None of us wants to be
thrown together with someone with whom we feel
uncomfortable. Most clients, given a choice,
would prefer to have a son or daughter care for
them, but with families' busy lives and geographic
separations, a paid caregiver can be a
lifesaver. Luckily, the paraprofession of
caregiving has grown along with the need for it,
and there are many compassionate and competent
people willing to do the job.
Selecting a qualified caregiver can make
a dramatic difference in the quality of life of an
elder and of his or her family. Managing the
hiring process thoughtfully, taking into
consideration the client's wants and needs and
communicating openly, can ensure a successful
long-term caregiving experience.... Learn
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Community
Events Forest
Stewardship Give to the community.
Help take care of newly planted trees. Volunteers
will assist with weeding, mulching, and other
stewardship activities. Every 2nd Friday of the
month When: November 13,
9am-Noon. Info:
For information and meeting location, contact the
Presidio Trust Volunteer Coordinator at (415)
561-5333 or volunteer@presidiotrust.gov
Seniors on the Move: Senior
Citizens Conference A discussion of
all that is important to the senior community,
including federal, state and local issues.
Sponsored by Congresswoman Jackie Speier in
conjunction with San Mateo County Supervisor
Adrienne J. Tissier. Admission is free and lunch
will be provided. Please register by
November 13.
When: Friday, December 4,
2009, 9:00am - 3:00pm Where:
South San Francisco Conference Center 255 South
Airport Blvd., South San Francisco, CA
94080
Free Wednesdays at the California
Academy of Sciences The 3rd Wednesday
of each month, visitors to the California Academy
of Sciences will enjoy free admission to Steinhart
Aquarium, Morrison Planetarium and Kimball Natural
History Museum.
When: November 18th,
9:30am-5:00pm Cost:
FREE Info: Call (415) 379-8000
or visit www.calacademy.org
Cable Car
CarolingGive music and
support to Bay Area seniors. Tour San
Francisco on motorized cable cars, stopping to
carol at senior homes and residences. Festivities
culminate with a holiday dinner, silent auction
and prize raffle. Ticket proceeds support the Center for Elderly
Suicide Prevention and Grief Related
Services. When:
December 6, 2009, 12:00 - 5:30 PM
Where: The Presidio
Officers' Club 50 Moraga Avenue, San
Francisco
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ENCOURAGE
Dear
Encourage,
I am encouraged by something I
discovered recently about myself: I started
volunteering at a youth center helping teens with
their homework because a friend of mine was doing
it and she thought it might be good for me to try
something new. And guess what? I am finding
that my helping others is also helping me! I have
been living with chronic pain from arthritis for a
long time and somehow this work has brought me
some relief-the pain is still present, but it has
subsided quite a bit. I am feeling better and
better and have more energy than before I started
volunteering.
Can this be possible that helping
others is actually relieving the severity of my
chronic pain? - Pleasantly
Surprised
Dear Pleasantly Surprised, What
you are describing has been referred to as the
"Helper's High." Stephen Post explains why in his
book, "Why Good Things Happen to Good People." He
provides scientific evidence that indicates that
giving of one's time (or money) not only feels
good, but can also improve one's health.
"Giving is as good for the giver as it is
for the receiver. Science says it's so. We'll be
happier, healthier, and even -- odds are -- live a
little longer if we're generous. To get involved
with someone else's problems makes your problems
look a lot less," Post said.
Post also
points out in his book that there are at least
five studies showing that seniors who gave tended
to live longer. A research project at Duke
University Medical Center provided evidence that
individuals with a history of heart attacks who
were asked to visit patients hospitalized with
cardiac problems and listen and be a supportive
and reassuring presence to these patients had
better health themselves after their heart
attacks.
The following are some possible
benefits of giving to
others: · Strengthening the immune-system.
· A decrease in both the intensity and
the awareness of physical
pain. · Activation of the emotions that
are vital to the maintaining good
health. · Reduction of the incidence of
attitudes, such as chronic hostility, that
negatively arouse and damage the
body. · The multiple benefits to the
body's systems provided by stress
relief. · Experiencing a "helper's high,"
a rush of euphoria, followed by a longer period of
calm, after performing a kind act.
Thank
you for bringing this pleasantly surprising
revelation to the attention of others. It seems
that in our society, we are in the habit of
reacting to our physical and emotional pain by
either taking a pill or doing nothing when in fact
reaching out to others may be just what the doctor
would
order!
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Every month we highlight a family
tradition, such as a recipe, a craft, or a cultural
holiday. Please suggest a tradition from
your family! This month's family
tradition:
Giving Thanks
and Saying
Grace
 Many households observe the
tradition of pausing before a meal to give thanks for
the food and other good things in their lives and on
their tables. For family meals or when entertaining,
unless your religion has a specific guideline, you can
be creative in deciding how grace will be said.
Click here for
ideas on giving thanks from different traditions
and faiths.
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