March/April - 2009
Engage-new?

Engaging with aging, our own and our parents', is a path roughened by complex issues and, occasionally, smoothed by creative responses. In this issue of Engage, we consider how to understand our smart, stubborn elders, how to understand new approaches to senior health, and how to understand the unique complexity of our own aging. And in the spirit of preparing for Spring's new growth, our events have a healthy theme. We hope this month's Engage will find you encouraged and enlivened.

We hope you will share Engage with your family and friends.
 
Sincerely,
 
Institute on Aging
Helping Bay Area Seniors Live Independently
 
The Cane Conversation
By Tracey Barnes Priestley for the Times-Standard 
 
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"Here's a frustration I hear with regularity: How do you get a senior to use a cane? This actually happens to be one discussion I've been having with my dear old mom ever since she broke her hip last year. At 82, her mind is sharp, her health is excellent. But frankly, her balance is shot.
  
My mother and I have hit the wall on this topic a number of times. (Well, her definition of the "wall" is that she'll politely listen to her concerned daughter and then, change the subject.)
 
Realizing I'm not getting anywhere, I've tried hard to understand why so many seniors refuse to use canes. Really now, we're talking about intelligent people here, with a lifetime of learning under their belts. Most are quite capable of decision making and are often living independently. What's at play here?..." 
PACE: Health Care Delivered as It Should Be  
By Jane Gross for The NY Times - New Old Age blog
 
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"Hardly anyone has a good word to say about this country's fragmented system for delivering and paying for long-term care, with one exception: the PACE program, which many experts laud as long-term care done right.
 
PACE, an acronym for "program of all-inclusive care for the elderly," provides anything and everything a frail elderly person and her family might need, coordinated by a team of medical and social service providers, for an annual fee generally paid by Medicare and Medicaid. The care can be delivered at home, a PACE center, a hospital or a long-term care facility - seamlessly moving back and forth under the supervision of one interdisciplinary team for a fixed cost.
 
The model for PACE was developed 27 years ago in San Francisco's Chinatown/North Beach area by a community center called On Lok (Cantonese for "peaceful, happy abode")..."
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Learn more about San Francisco's PACE programs.
Community Events  
provided by Community Health Resource Center
Blood Pressure Screening
More than 1 in 3 adults have high blood pressure. High blood pressure may result in stroke, heart attack, heart failure and arterial aneurysm. It is also a leading cause of kidney failure. Keep track of your blood pressure with these screenings.
When: Friday, March 20th, 1pm-2pm
Where: 2100 Webster St., Ste 100
San Francisco, CA
Cost: Free
For more information, call (415) 923-3155
 
Cholesterol: Heart Healthy Foods   
Are your cholesterol levels high? Did you know that high cholesterol is one of the major risk factors for heart disease? Join a Registered Dietitian to discover how changing dietary habits and learning new approaches to eating can improve cardiovascular health.
When: Tuesday, March 24th, 12:30pm-2pm
Where: 2100 Webster Street, Suite 106
San Francisco, CA 
Cost: requested donation $10
For more information, call (415) 923-3155

Bone Density Screening
Estimates are that one out of every two women over the age of 50 will be affected by osteoporosis; so will one out of every eight men. Learn your bone density at this screening.
When: Wednesday, March 25th, 10am-12pm
Where: 2100 Webster St., Ste 100
San Francisco, CA
Cost: $30
For more information, call (415) 923-3155
 
ENCOURAGE
 
Dear Encourage,
I am an 82-year "young" widowed woman living on my own in San Francisco. I love the city and try to stay involved in projects I enjoy. I am grateful to have lived to this ripe age with no major physical ailments, yet it seems to me the older I get, the more I notice the people around me - my friends - dying. I find it difficult to talk with my children about how I am feeling & I often wonder how other older folks feel about their later life. My question is whether there is a place where I can talk with other people around my age about our experiences on this "growing older" journey?

Dear Reaching Out,
 
I am glad you asked that question! Your curiosity and willingness to explore the later stages of your development are shared by many other inquiring minds. Many of the older adults whom I work with express to me their frustration in that they oftentimes feel dismissed by relatives when they try to engage in conversations about later life. It may be out of their own fear of getting older or their discomfort with the topic. At Institute on Aging, we are forming a weekly discussion group entitled, "Aging Today: Opportunities and Obstacles in Later Life" in response to having identified a need for older adults to join together to discuss their aging journeys. Social support is so important for mind, body and spirit at all ages, but especially for those who have a heightened sense of awareness of how their support systems are getting smaller. If you are interested in learning more about this group, please give us a call.
 
Contact Janet L. Meiselman, PsyD (415) 750-4180, ext. 216.

 
Do you have a question about engaging with life as a senior? Send it our way. Please note, questions may be printed but will be kept strictly anonymous.  Click here to email us.
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HERITAGE
 
 Every month we highlight a family tradition, such as a recipe, a craft, or a cultural holiday.  Please  suggest a tradition from your family!

This month's family tradition:
 
Roses!

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Blooming season is around the corner. If you want big, beautiful rose bushes through the summer, March is the time to prune.

And throughout this rainy season, remember the 3 W's of gardening:
Weeding,
Watering
& Waiting!

Click here to find pruning tips for a variety of roses. Enjoy! 

We'd like to feature part of your heritage. Share a recipe, tradition or family story. We'd love to print it!
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